Why It’s Better Move On
When something unwanted happens or when someone does something we don’t like, we tend to get upset. We read the Riot Act. We make sure …
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When Tempted To Bemoan The State of Affairs
An astute reader pointed out, “Sometimes we have to raise our own buzz in order to be able to raise other people’s buzz.” So true. …
What To Do When Things Become Dysfunctional
Sometimes, the level of dysfunction in a group situation is so high that logic, best practice, and pretty much all other well-meaning interventions are utterly …
When What We Want Remains Out Of Reach
We have good want and bad want. Good want says things like, “I want this and am excited that it is on its way.” Bad …
Ready, Set, Go!
Where do you weigh in on the great speed debate? Is pressing for high speed the fastest way to get things done? Or is slowing …
Clear or Fuzzy Me
Our success depends, in part, on how clearly we understand ourselves. To know how well we understand ourselves, we can ask three questions: How clearly …
Getting Unstuck Is Simpler Than You Think
Whenever you are feeling stuck, at a loss, or uncertain, remember this: you have everything you need to get clarity, direction, and movement. With some …
Early Warning Sign
You know, I do tend to go on about feeling good. Yet there is value in a bad feeling or in thoughts that feel bad …
What Do You Want, Really?
What do you want, my friend? A new car, job, or relationship? More sales, money, or health? A house, a vacation, or someone to change …
No Need to Keep Up
Many of us subtly push away success. We fear it. We think, “Sure, I want to be more successful. But I am already so busy …