What’s In The Way?
You can remove obstacles to success once you see them. This simple diagnostic will uncover most every obstacle. It works for both you and your …
Mindset
An open, calm, confident mindset. Plugged in, mostly. Opting for feel good, then act instead of get into action to shut down bad feelings.
Where?
There is an important place I encourage you to visit often. Where is it? Well… When you have guilt about the past or worry about …
You May Need to Change
Ways that worked for you in the past may have stopped working. Some of the tools, ideas, approaches, and attitudes that got you to this …
Do Nothing, Get a Prize
You do your best work when you feel good. (See Effectiveness Habit #2.) And if you don’t feel good–if feel like poo–you may think that …
Double-Dog Dare You NOT to Fight, Complain, Criticize
Do not fight, criticize, or complain about anyone or anything. Doing so has a very odd way of cementing into your business, career, and life …
Decisions
How do you decide something? You may take the reasonable approach. You gather data, make lists of pros and cons, get other people’s perspective, or …
What Do You Want?
In career, business, relationships, and health–in areas large and small–we sometimes struggle to get what we want. When we struggle, there is often–oddly–one major and …
This Is Me
In my work, I often confront people’s assumptions. I call out the thoughts or feelings that likely limit their success. Sometimes, they get defensive and …
One Cure for Inaction
One big source of inaction is the thought that we should shoot for big results, that we need to hit home runs to be successful. …
Difficult Conversations
An interview. An important meeting or phone call. A sales conversation. A performance review. In these typically difficult conversations, we often worry about our performance …