Productive. Seriously?
In my life, I just wait and watch. I know that the decision will be made in its own time, so I […]
Tag: feel good
Feel Good Despite
Have you noticed how others can set our mood? If another person is having a bad day, we can take it on, […]
The Road Out
All of us want to move away from fear and toward joy. We are pre-wired for it. Our problem is that we […]
Turn to Focus
The suggestion is, “Feel good. Then act.” And that knot in your gut, that tension between your shoulders or up your neck, […]
Two Sides of the Same Coin
The sages have always said that there are just two emotions: love and fear. It’s helpful to see that these are two […]
Goals Must Feel Good
There is a caveat when setting large, nutty, impossible goals: they don’t work if you feel bad while you are setting them. […]
Attention and Intention
Our thoughts are creative and powerful. Every success you can think of, for example, begins with thoughts about what that success looks […]
Hard Work Has Nothing to Do With It
Hard work is not one of the ingredients of success. Showing up and doing the next best action again and again? Sure. […]
No Shoulds
Catch yourself when, in making a decision, you say, “I should,” “I ought to,” or “I have to.” Even if we seem […]
Under Stress, We Do Exactly the Wrong Things
Under stress, we act in ways that directly counter our values/motivators/drivers.. If, for example, we value practicality, under stress we will do […]