To Lead a Great Life
One way is to be what’s expected of you. That may mean playing small. Or it may mean striving to measure up or even to …
It Seems Magical
When you are committed to win-win-or-don’t-play, the “how it will all work out” seems to take care of itself. What we had been worrying about …
Your Choice
If what you need from another is that they are self-sufficient, confident, creative, and working well with others, then encourage them with love, patience, trust, …
Perfect Planning Prevents Performance
As they say, “Proper prior planning prevents poor performance.” Thing is, it can also promote poor performance–especially where there is fear, uncertainty, and doubt. It …
To Relationship, Trust, Vulnerability and Back
The quality (including the joy, usefulness, and potential) of any of your relationships depends directly on the level of trust between you. To increase the …
What To Do When There’s Too Much To Do To Work On Having Less To Do
Have you ever caught yourself saying something like, “I have too much to do; I am behind. There is no way I can possibly work …
More Valuable Indeed
Which is more valuable? To be the one who has the answer or to be the one who knows that we will find the answer …
Looking Back or Forward
Do you need to understand your past in order to move forward, to succeed where you have not yet succeeded? Nope. And you can if …
Refusing to Go Along
Others, when they are down, can take you into their tailspin. You will know you are heading down with them because you will feel bad …
Special
A quick public service reminder: you and everyone are special and valuable. From the definition of the word (and because “you are special” often sounds …