Why We Should Resist Solving Their Problems
When people are buzzing low, they will almost always present us with problems and complaints. If we’re not careful, we’ll get drawn into the trap …
Mindset
An open, calm, confident mindset. Plugged in, mostly. Opting for feel good, then act instead of get into action to shut down bad feelings.
A Deep Insight
It can look like complaint, frustration, withdrawal, fear, defensiveness, anger, worry, guilt, pushing, or avoiding. No matter. If anything has led you to believe that …
We Can Always
When faced with big or continuous obstacles, we can say, “I can’t,” “This is impossible,” “That’s not the right process,” “There’s something wrong with me/you/them/it,” …
Between the Ears
What is the gist of the stories we tell ourselves, 24/7? Are they like these…? “That’s just the way it is.” “I/you/they/we/those things suck.” “It’s …
Welcome to Monday
We can avoid much angst and subsequent poor results (action taken while feeling bad always hampers results) by simply pausing for a walk outside, petting …
Replace Worry
What would happen if we replaced worry or concern with trust that it will all work out? Some might fear nothing would every get done. …
Why We Don’t Fight
Fighting what we don’t want (at home, work, or in the world-at-large) only pushes people to fight back. Our energy gets drained and our effectiveness …
What He Said
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you …
Your Most Important Work
The signs pointing the way to happiness (and success) at work and in life are right here, in plain sight. So why do we all …
What’s Really Possible
We learned all about what’s possible and what’s not from the well-meaning people around us especially family, teachers, and friends. But for the most part, …