Stubbornly Undone
For anything that remains stubbornly undone, the very last place at need to look for answers is between our ears. Our judgments and beliefs hold …
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Stories
Our success mostly rests on the stories we tell ourselves about us, them, this thing, or that situation. Unwanted results? Wanted results? What story were …
Why We Should Resist Solving Their Problems
When people are buzzing low, they will almost always present us with problems and complaints. If we’re not careful, we’ll get drawn into the trap …
Between the Ears
What is the gist of the stories we tell ourselves, 24/7? Are they like these…? “That’s just the way it is.” “I/you/they/we/those things suck.” “It’s …
What He Said
If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you …
Your Most Important Work
The signs pointing the way to happiness (and success) at work and in life are right here, in plain sight. So why do we all …
Can Our Problems Ever Go Away?
Nope. We will always have problems. But we can forever change how they affect us. When we’re feeling good, plugged in, and buzzing high, problems …
Happiness Is…
Despite what we may sometimes wish, happiness does not come from wiping out our problems. We can’t wipe them out. Like ocean waves, life is …
Nothing and No One Needs Fixing
Where our inner game is off, it normally comes from us nursing a belief about them, us, or the situation being fundamentally broken. These harsh …
The Flow is Delightful
By doing the hard work of feeling good–despite any situation and before getting into any action–we are putting ourselves into that flow we all have glimpsed …