What To Do When, Yes, They Did Just Say That
Sometimes others say or do things that confound us. It is usually some assertion we think is wrong, hurtful, or ignorant. To be polite or …
Want
The sages tell us to get present and find joy right here and now. There is nothing more we need. We can be happy now …
A Daily Choice
We have a choice each morning as we wake up. We can raise our buzz and commit to having a feel good day before we hop out of …
No Need for Enduring Legacies
When we consider our careers and what makes them meaningful, let’s beware the wish for creating something that will last. Instead of enduring, let’s go for …
Which Leaders Win
Bad leaders discount, discourage, and disparage us. They point out, sometimes earnestly, our flaws. Good leaders reward and appreciate us. They highlight our talents. Great …
Good News About Our Dreams
We pull back on our work and life dreams because we once experienced our dreams not coming true. Then others explained to us that this …
Strong Decisions Quickly
We can waste lots of time and energy by trying to think our way through problems, to figure out what to do next, or to make …
We Win Either Way
We tend to see life as a series of ups and downs, of struggles and plateaus, of things that happen to us and our reactions. …
Why We Need An Effectiveness System
We are amazing thinkers. We are very good at solving problems, creating art, achieving goals, and telling stories. What we are not good at is remembering …
How Much Process Is Too Much?
We each have a process and procedure comfort zone. We fall somewhere on a continuum from, “We can never have enough process, procedures, and policies (plus data …