I Double-Super-Secret Promise You
It won’t work. It’s hard. I’m not good at that. They won’t do it. You gotta be lucky. The situation I’m looking for doesn’t exist. …
Mindset
An open, calm, confident mindset. Plugged in, mostly. Opting for feel good, then act instead of get into action to shut down bad feelings.
Great Results
Great results occur when we finally see that our real work is to focus on what we want, feel good about what we want showing …
Quietly
Here’s an unusual but powerful way to add value: when the rest of the world (or at least the rest of the people in the meeting) …
Hear Past the Chatter
All day, we chatter along to ourselves. Mostly we repeat the same fear-driven opinions, judgments, and assessments about ourselves, the world, and how to figure …
How To Stop Creating Stress
We create our own stress. This is much more than an old self-help chestnut. It is a vitally important insight. Once we get this, we …
Leading When Beliefs Go Rogue
Labels, judgments, yeah buts, and other beliefs about the way things are can help but often stop helping us. They go rogue. We can tell …
Fall in Love with Your Vision
So used to expecting things not to work out, we limit our vision of what think we or our businesses can achieve. Or, perhaps, we …
If We Focus On What’s Wrong…
…we will only succeed in perpetuating it (or something like it). In other words, we will never solve a problem by complaining about it, wishing …
Don’t Be Realistic
Negativity is important. Without it, we can’t know what we really want. Our problem is that we stay focused on the negative long after it …
Still Complaining?
Complaint can never, ever solve whatever we are complaining about because it keeps us focused on what we don’t want. And so the solutions we …