And/Or
Chocolate and vanilla. Dogs and cats. Science and myth. Smart and good looking. People and profits. Life is better when we act as if and …
positive
Which is Better: Avoid or Enjoy?
There is a vast difference between seeking positive and avoiding negative. It is very difficult to generate positive by avoiding negative. We all want and …
Overwhelming Good
A very small proportion of happenings at work, home, and around the world are negative. But it seems that the negative things capture our attention. …
It’s Where You Look that Matters
It seems pretty true that we get what we focus on. So why do we insist on complaint, criticism, and otherwise focusing on what’s wrong …
It’s like turning your head
Evolutionary neurologists have a good explanation for our habit of focusing mostly on the negative, the problems, what is wrong. They explain how we inherited …
Three Ways of Looking at it All
There are generally three ways to look at things. And people predominately stick with the one way they are used to. Things are bad. There’s …