A Fantastic Way to Lead
The sages tell us that we each create our own reality. This is challenging. For, to believe it, we would have to come to grips …
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There is huge freedom, joy, and growth in (finally, whew!) accepting that we are each responsible for everything. Blame is the game of our less-mature …
Where The Fault Really Lies
Part of our job as leaders (with or without title) is to find things that need improvement. We look for whatever keeps going wrong or …
Tell a Better Story than Disappointment and Blame
Disappointment in and blame of others is wasteful and untrue. When you are disappointed in and blame others or life in general, you are telling …
What Does FAE Say?
We have an odd tendency to pin blame on others instead of the situation. Social psychologists call this the fundamental attribution error (FAE). Think of …
When You Blame You Are Lost
The moment you blame someone or something else for the problem, you are lost. Blame is abdication and distraction. Blame is an attempt to distance …