Who Ordered This Mess?
Have you ever caught yourself in a foul or fearful mood and wondered, “Who ordered this mess?” Worse, have you gotten angry or worried about …
Useful Way to Be
When reacting to a situation, you may catch yourself saying, “Well that’s just the way I am.” Correction, my friend. That is the way you …
The Way of the Win-Win Warrior
With effort you can use various techniques to get win-win results. Technique alone is subject to error and misinterpretation. It will be much easier when …
Fortune Smiles
They say that Fortune smiles on the lucky or the ready. Fortune and her sisters Love, Freedom, Health, and Happiness always smile on you. Your …
What To Do When They Don’t Get It
“Why don’t they get it? It is so simple.” If you are thinking something like this, then pause. They are not ready for your solution …
Juicy Goodness
Sure you can worry, complain, or get angry about another person’s decisions, behaviors, or attitude. You can go ahead and demand, plead, negotiate, attack, capitulate, …
4 Ways of Nimble Leadership
There are several good ways to lead. You can Conduct. You know what is and what is needed. You decide what others are to do, …
Rinse Your Conditionals
Where, at work and home, are you trying to strike a bargain that looks like this? “When X becomes true, then I will be happy, …
New Year: How to Change the Stubborn Issues
In this time of resolutions, reflection, and list-making, we can become understandably skeptical. Often the things we really want to be different just don’t change. …
Your First Step
You can build a strategy–for yourself or your organization–out of fear. You can apply your intelligence, talent, and strength to defend against obvious or unspoken …