Jellyfish or Jackhammer?
We can act in response to what we think are other people’s judgments of us. (Yuck.) Or we can act according to […]
Tag: judgment
Nothing and No One Needs Fixing
Where our inner game is off, it normally comes from us nursing a belief about them, us, or the situation being fundamentally […]
When We Remember
When we remember that we are all mad, the mysteries disappear and life stands explained. – Mark Twain And when we remember […]
Door Number 2
Even if we do it behind their backs, people can tell when we have judged, criticized, or found fault in them. They […]
How to Lead When Things Go Wrong
When things go wrong (and when they keep going wrong), our temptation is to judge the people involved as underperforming nogoodniks. (We […]
A Small Journey to the Source of People Problems
Let’s take a small journey then come back home. Most problems at work are people problems. People problems mostly come from our tendency […]
Not Like Us
It seems that we instantly and all day long judge others as one of us or not one of us. We may […]
It Does Take Two to Tango
Because, as leaders, we enter many relationships, we often find ourselves bothered by and reacting to other people’s actions. Whenever and with whomever […]
Why We Cannot Afford to Judge
As leaders (with or without title), influencers, and sales people, we cannot afford to judge others. Not at all. To judge another, […]
Other People Know How We Feel About Them
In a way, we can say that we are all psychic. We can usually read each other’s emotions quite accurately. We may […]