Still Complaining?

Complaint can never, ever solve whatever we are complaining about because it keeps us focused on what we don’t want. And so […]

We Can Always

When faced with big or continuous obstacles, we can say, “I can’t,” “This is impossible,” “That’s not the right process,” “There’s something […]

Seeing the Good

Listen to conversations on the street, through the media, at work, and even at home. Much of what we hear is complaint. […]

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Focusing on What’s Wrong?

Focusing on what’s wrong feels bad. And it is helpful as long as we continue on to what we want instead and what’s […]

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When We Want to Whinge

There’s nothing wrong with complaint as long as it is merely noticing. “Ah,  that’s something I do not prefer.” It’s the emotion […]

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Why It’s Better Move On

When something unwanted happens or when someone does something we don’t like, we tend to get upset. We read the Riot Act. […]

Arguing for Our Own Limitations

When we complain about, criticize, or blame others, ourselves, the situation, or the economy, we are actually arguing for our own limitation. […]

Refusing to Go Along

Others, when they are down, can take you into their tailspin. You will know you are heading down with them because you […]

Juicy Goodness

Sure you can worry, complain, or get angry about another person’s decisions, behaviors, or attitude.  You can go ahead and demand, plead, […]