Grows Still Complaining? Complaint can never, ever solve whatever we are complaining about because it keeps us focused on what we don’t want. And so […]
Grows We Can Always When faced with big or continuous obstacles, we can say, “I can’t,” “This is impossible,” “That’s not the right process,” “There’s something […]
Grows, Leading Seeing the Good Listen to conversations on the street, through the media, at work, and even at home. Much of what we hear is complaint. […]
Grows Focusing on What’s Wrong? Focusing on what’s wrong feels bad. And it is helpful as long as we continue on to what we want instead and what’s […]
Leading It’s Where You Look that Matters It seems pretty true that we get what we focus on. So why do we insist on complaint, criticism, and otherwise focusing […]
Grows When We Want to Whinge There’s nothing wrong with complaint as long as it is merely noticing. “Ah, that’s something I do not prefer.” It’s the emotion […]
Grows, We Why It’s Better Move On When something unwanted happens or when someone does something we don’t like, we tend to get upset. We read the Riot Act. […]
Grows Arguing for Our Own Limitations When we complain about, criticize, or blame others, ourselves, the situation, or the economy, we are actually arguing for our own limitation. […]
We Refusing to Go Along Others, when they are down, can take you into their tailspin. You will know you are heading down with them because you […]
Leading Juicy Goodness Sure you can worry, complain, or get angry about another person’s decisions, behaviors, or attitude. You can go ahead and demand, plead, […]