Jellyfish or Jackhammer?

We can act in response to what we think are other people’s judgments of us. (Yuck.) Or we can act according to […]

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It Does Take Two to Tango

Because, as leaders, we enter many relationships, we often find ourselves bothered by and reacting to other people’s actions. Whenever and with whomever […]

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Feel Good Despite

Have you noticed how others can set our mood? If another person is having a bad day, we can take it on, […]

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You Simply Can’t Know

We often are baffled by other people’s behavior. And we rush to ascribe the causes. Yet in trying to figure out why […]

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Context

Getting people to do stuff. Sheesh. That’s tough. We try asking, telling, pleading, demanding, yelling, guilting, pushing, and praying. While these methods […]