We can get into trouble trying to analyze people whose behaviors confound us. We humans are complex; even the experts stumble trying to figure out people’s personalities. More important: the more we focus on what (we think) is wrong with them, the more they will get stuck there.
To get people unstuck, let’s instead take small steps, focus on desired behavior, and express our belief in their ability to improve.
In your corner,
Mike
Today’s photo credit: [Yes, this is Freud’s office.] Alessandro Grussu Londra-215 via photopin (license)