This is very hard to say. And very hard to admit. When we consistently see unwanted results or unwanted behaviors from others, we have to pause. It is highly likely that we are the problem.
Rather, how we’re thinking about things is the problem. And when the unwanted have been showing up for quite some time, chances are great that the ways we are thinking about things are well ingrained. So well that we are convinced we are right.
Ugh, quite a bind right? This is very hard.
In your corner,
PS: Of course, there’s a happy way out of this bind. More soon.