The Moment We Choose to Become Leaders

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Observe the impact of your interactions as a leader (with or without title). Wherever we see more of the right stuff getting done with ease, we are doing our jobs well. Where we encounter resistance, politics, poor results, and drama, we are being shown something we haven’t yet mastered as leaders. The moment we choose […]

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Choose Something

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Success demands we first clearly declare what we want to achieve. Yet we are often afraid to do that. We worry that we will be disappointed if we set our hearts on something and it doesn’t materialize. We fret that we won’t be able to handle or hold on to the success. Or we are […]

Can We Have Everything?

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The cars, the houses, the career, the family, the vacations, the meaningful experiences, the titles, the accolades, the bucket list, the prestige, the money, the cottage, the degrees and certifications, the friends, the love, the fame, the good life, the perfect swing, the next iPhone? (I could go on.) Can we have everything? No. There […]


Find Meaningful Work, Part 1

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How does one find meaningful work? Start with knowing what is meaningful. We choose to give meaning to something by noticing and appreciating it. In your career, the trick is not to somehow find work that is meaningful. The trick is to choose confidently whatever you choose to notice and appreciate. Then find all the […]

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Fresh Start

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At the new year, we might take advantage of a new beginning. We pledge,  promise,  and resolve. Then we hope, pray, and worry that we will stick with it, that the stars will align, and that what we want will finally come true. Or, knowing the disappointment of past New Year’s resolutions, we content ourselves […]


What You Choose to See

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If your first or second thought about a goal is how impossible it is, you’re sunk. If you believe it won’t work, it can’t. If you worry, curse, or complain, you are using your smart-thinking-brain to prevent success. You know all this. And you want to stay focused on what feels good, on what is […]


A Gentle Reminder to All Travelers

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Welcome! Welcome aboard this journey to the rest of your life. We are so happy you are here. As you settle in, look about and see what you’d like to achieve next. You have many things to choose from. Many of our guests are shocked to realize how many possibilities exist for them. You can […]