There is a vast difference between seeking positive and avoiding negative. It is very difficult to generate positive by avoiding negative. We all want and deserve positive. Avoiding negative just can’t cut it anymore.
At work and in life, set aside what you wish to avoid and tell me what you want to enjoy.
In your corner,
PS: Try this shift as often as you notice you’re focused on the negative. Hint: negative feel bad.
PPS: What is positive and negative can shift. Use your feelings to discern.