When C.J. Fudwarg Comes for a Visit

C.J. Fudwarg feels so at home that we often forget: C.J. is a most unwelcome guest. Whenever C.J. arrives for a visit, people’s lives take a turn for the worse. All the complaint, judgment, fear, uncertainty, doubt, worry, anger, regret, and guilt make quite a mess of things. As leaders, our job is to send C.J. Fudwarg packing.

The easiest way to do this is to raise our own buzz. This invites others to raise theirs. Unable to stomach a high buzz for very long, C.J. Fudwarg soon decamps.


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Today’s photo credit: David Bamber as Mr. Collins in the 1995 miniseries Pride and Prejudice. © 1995 BBC Films

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