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Far-Fetched Fantasies of Success

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We are so used to thinking what could go wrong. We dive into far-fetched fantasies to explore the worst possible things that could happen. Flitting from this topic to that, we go through our days often not even aware of this bad-feeling monologue. One antidote: write down all the ways it could go right. Pick […]

Preparing For The Worst

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Preparing for the worst has an annoying tendency to encourage the worst to accept your invitation. Oddly, so does fearing the worst. And so does fearing the worst while pretending to be optimistic. Invite the best with a simple focus on what feels good, better, and best. Use tools like the flip, the ladder, this […]