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Say What You Notice

No matter how we may deny it, we totally can sense another person’s emotions. And we usually do a poor job responding […]

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Brain Getting Stuck

“Think logically. Use your head,” we are told. We are admonished not to be emotional. “Our brains separate us from mere beasts.” […]

Decisions

How do you decide something? You may take the reasonable approach. You gather data, make lists of pros and cons, get other […]

Slow Down to Speed Up

We need to influence other people’s actions every day. To do so, we usually try what I call “going faster to speed […]