A picture of a simple farm gate

Gatekeeping

Most gatekeepers–those who would keep us out–are powerless. In the short term they throw up obstacles. But in the long term they’ve […]

We Can Always

When faced with big or continuous obstacles, we can say, “I can’t,” “This is impossible,” “That’s not the right process,” “There’s something […]

The General

The General is our internalized voice of external authority that tells us what to do. It “shoulds” all over us with edicts […]

Irresponsible Optimism

Is it irresponsible optimism to say, “Yes, I acknowledge the obstacles. We are going to succeed nonetheless.”? Perhaps. And it is the only […]

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What Could Possibly Go Wrong?

Despite commitments and good intentions, people regularly fail to do what they had said they would do. It is tempting to explain that their […]