Don’t Be Realistic
Negativity is important. Without it, we can’t know what we really want. Our problem is that we stay focused on the negative […]
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At Moments Like These
Complaining about, fearing, or fighting something that we don’t like is the painful, slow way. Such focus only strengthens it. Focusing on what we […]
Which is Better: Avoid or Enjoy?
There is a vast difference between seeking positive and avoiding negative. It is very difficult to generate positive by avoiding negative. We […]
Overwhelming Good
A very small proportion of happenings at work, home, and around the world are negative. But it seems that the negative things […]
It’s like turning your head
Evolutionary neurologists have a good explanation for our habit of focusing mostly on the negative, the problems, what is wrong. They explain […]
News Diet
Murder, conflict, politics, woe. Sigh. Whether we hear it, watch it, or read it, our daily dose of news stories feels bad, […]
Three Ways of Looking at it All
There are generally three ways to look at things. And people predominately stick with the one way they are used to. Things […]