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Ask Them

Other people can be quite frustrating. Since they don’t want to be told what to do or think, how can we possibly […]

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We External Processors

Some of us are external processors: we don’t know what we think until we hear ourselves say it. We are very good […]

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No One Wants To Be Told

You can tell others, “Do this,” and receive something between reluctant compliance and outright resistance in return. No one wants to be […]

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Statements and Questions

Thinking we have to be strong–or at least to look strong or to look like we know something–we make statements. We make […]

Take Charge and Ask

A friend wrote: “I would love to talk to [you] about specific problems I have, to lay it all out on the […]