For anything that remains stubbornly undone, the very last place at need to look for answers is between our ears.
Our judgments and beliefs hold both wanted and unwanted situations in place with tenacity. So it makes all kind of sense to replace any attention to unwanted (including complaints, judgments, etc.) with high-buzz attention on what we do want.
In your corner,
Mike
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